Jews of USC

Timely thoughts, meaningful matters, and random ramblings from a Chabad campus Shliach.

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Holy Hollywood, Gift of Life, and Shabbat @ Chabad

1) Holy Hollywood – “Walk the red carpet” with award winning actor and comedian Shelley Berman TUESDAY night
2) Gift of Life – Bone Marrow Registry Drive Wednesday
3) Shabbat change of schedule – we will be at Chabad this Shabbat, Jewnity Shabbat has been rescheduled to Nov. 17
4) Next weekend – Shabbat dinner w. Chabad in Stanford or at the New York Shabbaton w. Matisyahu concert
5) Thought for the Week


1) Holy Hollywood – walk “the red carpet” with award winning actor and comedian Shelley Berman
Don’t miss part 2 of our exciting lecture series: Jewish LAS. A Food for Thought event.
Is Hollywood really about Jewish values? What’s it like being Jewish in “the industry”? Does it help, hurt, or neither?
Hear over 50 years worth of Hollywood memories from a true industry legend –award winning actor and comedian Shelley Berman. Whether it’s through his Grammy-award winning comedy recordings, his big-screen appearances in such movies as “Meet the Fockers” and “The Aristocrats”, his roles in such TV hits as Friends, King of Queens, or most recently Curb Your Enthusiasm, or his teaching of humor writing in the MPW program right here at USC, Shelley Berman has done it all. And throughout everything, he has maintained a very clear awareness and connection with his Jewish identity.
Walk down the red carpet, munch away on popcorn, movie treats, and a full salad bar, and enjoy Shelley’s anecdotes, reminisces, and insights.
Due to technical difficulties, we have had to drop Mel Gibson from our list of speakers for the evening….
Tuesday, Oct. 24th. 6:30 pm at the Chabad House. RSVP at www.chabadusc.com or at the Facebook event “Holy Hollywood”.

2) Gift of Life – Bone Marrow Registry Drive
Another Helping Hands social action opportunity.
Do you want to save a life? Maybe it’s a child with leukemia? Or an adult with lymphoma?
You’ll never know if you could have done something, if you’re not in the national bone marrow registry.
Statistics show that it’s most likely for matches to be found for marrow transplants from people with similar ethnic backgrounds. So the more Ashkenazi and Sephardic Jews in the registry, the more likely it is that a match can be found when someone from that background is in need. That’s what Gift of Life was founded for. And that’s why we’re doing a drive for Gift of Life this coming Wednesday.
What: Bone marrow registry
Where: In front of the JEP house, at Trousdale and 34th (right near the Finger Fountain).
When: Wednesday, October 25. 11:30 am – 2:30 pm
A cooperative effort between Gift of Life, Chabad @ USC, and AEPi.

3) Change of Schedule – Shabbat at Chabad this week, Jewnity Shabbat has been rescheduled for Nov. 17
Due to technical difficulties, our joint Shabbat with Hillel has been rescheduled for a couple of weeks from now.
What that means is that you can enjoy another of Runya’s delicious home-cooked Shabbat dinners with the unique atmosphere and ambience of the Chabad House this Friday night. So if you’ve been MIA due to the holidays for a bit, this is the week we’d like to see you back.

Friday, Oct. 27
Candle Lighting: 5:48 pm
Services: 6:00 pm
Dinner: 7:00 pm
Saturday, Oct. 28
(yes, that’s Rabbi Dov’s secular birthday, but since we celebrate the dates in the Jewish calendar—it’s not until later this month)
Morning Discussion: 9:15 am
Services: 10:00 am
Lunch: 12:30 pm
(we’re starting a bit early so that if anybody needs to be somewhere at 12:30 – say due to the game or something – they can still make itJ. Remember that the Trojans have still never lost a game on a Shabbat that we’ve gotten a Minyan together. It’s been tight getting Minyans the past several weeks, but we’ve been pulling them out…)
Shabbat ends: 6:43 pm

4) Next Weekend’s schedule
Just a note for anyone planning their schedules around Friday night dinners:
Next weekend (Nov. 3) we will not be having Shabbat services or meals at the Chabad House at USC. We will be offering Shabbat dinner through Chabad in Stanford for those making the trip up to the Weekender, and of course we will be in NY for the International Shabbaton.
We were very excited this week to hear that Matisyahu will be one of the performers at the concert at the Shabbaton on Saturday night. It’ll be a closed event only for Shabbaton attendees, so if you’ll be in the NY area make sure to register now. And if you’ve been wavering until now – as of today there were still tickets available at a reasonable price, and we have made a couple more spots available. Don’t delay – frankiel@usc.edu to register.

5) Thought for the Week
I looked around for something to share but couldn’t find anything more appropriate than my thought from a couple of years back, so here it is:
Tell me if this strikes a chord. You feel like you're on a small boat, being buffeted about by huge stormy waves. Wave upon wave of pressures, stresses, classes, and (shudder) midterm tests crash about you, threatening to drown you beneath the onslaught.
It's not just midterm season. Life is like that. We're constantly faced by a deluge of obstacles and pressures, whether they are emotional, financial, social, etc.

It reminds you of this week's Torah portion. It reminds you of the Great Flood in Noah's days.

Yet, Noah declared: "The great waters, i.e. the great pressures of the world around me, cannot extinguish the flames of my love for G-d."
The Sages refer to the waters of the flood, not as a negative punishment, but as positive and purifying, comparable to the waters of the Mikvah on a global scale.

The same is true of the obstacles we face. They may seem, at times, purely negative--like a pain in the neck that we would much rather be without. Yet, we know that the opposite is true. Without applying pressure, no oil issues forth from the olive. Without facing obstacles, we never truly grow.
The more we apply internal pressure to ourselves, i.e. recognize the personal need for constant movement and growth, the less need there is for us to be faced with external pressures.
Let's discuss this a little bit more in-depth.
When you think of the Flood, what normally comes to mind?
The picture usually painted for us is one a fire-breathing, vindictive G-d, out to get His revenge by meting out a terrible punishment upon mankind for their sins. G-d created man. Man turned away from G-d. G-d punishes him by wiping him out.
That whole perspective lies underneath so much of people's problem with religion, and has greatly colored the way we look at the Bible. (This follows on last week's discussion of G-d's imperfect creation. Did He just make a mistake and choose to wipe out the evidence?)
Chassidism looks at the whole story and paints a completely different picture.
Sure, we believe in reward and punishment. We even believe in Hell and Heaven. (A comment I often hear from students when I say this: "Noo! You're kidding, right? Judaism doesn't believe in Hell!")
The difference is that we don't believe in Hell as purely punishment.
G-d isn't petty. He's not looking to get back at people who have angered Him. What He is interested in is people following the path He has laid out for them, people fulfilling the mission He has charged them with.
That mission includes a spiritual journey. He created us with a soul, and He wants us-- through involvement in the world around us in a positive manner, through actually fulfilling the commandments of the Torah--to elevate that soul, to bring it to a higher degree of spiritual perfection.
Sometimes we deviate from this path. We spiritually dirty and harm our souls, by getting involved in things that we shouldn't, in things that have been forbidden to us because of the spiritual danger they pose.
But, G-d still wants us to succeed. He still wants us to be able to reach the goals we've set out, to achieve the degree of spiritual connection that is our soul's greatest desire.
In order to do so, we have to get rid of the dirt.
That's what Hell is perceived as in Judaism. Just as a rug may be beaten to clear it of dirt and allow its beauty to shine, just as clothing is scrubbed to remove stains and restore its pristine cleanliness, so too are our souls put through a cleansing process, a process which involves intense spiritual pain, so that they may once again connect to G-d in purity and perfection.
This same is true of the Great Flood. If all G-d was trying to do was punish those who had angered Him, why waste all that good water? (After all, G-d's a conservationist. He created nothing without purpose.) What purpose was there in all that tumult, and that great deviation from the rules of nature He had implemented? Why not just kill them off with a plague or something?
The Flood seems to be about something completely different as well. In Judaism, water is purifying. When someone has become ritually impure, they immerse in a Mikvah, a body of water. Before a man and woman can join in marriage, or rejoin in familial relations after the woman's menstrual period, she immerses herself in a Mikvah. Similarly, when the world had become filled with improper and immoral behavior, it had to be immersed in a Mikvah.
It wasn't about revenge. It wasn't about vindictiveness. It was about allowing the world to refresh and re-focus on fulfilling its Divinely ordained spiritual journey.
Have a great Shabbos!

Challahs of Love, Holy Hollywood, & Runya's Birthday

Hi everyone,
Thank you to all who made the Sukkot and Simchas Torah holiday celebrations so amazing and memorable. Now that the holidays are all done, it’s back to just the regular craziness of school and midterms. But, don’t worry! We still have plenty of excitement going on. Whether it’s social action (Challahs of Love & Gift of Life), Food for Thought (Holy Hollywood), our signature Shabbat events, learning opportunities or trips, there’s something going on for you to get involved in.
Hope to see you soon! Check out the opportunities below.
Dov and Runya Wagner

1) Challahs of Love – tonight
2) Turn Friday Night into Shabbat – Runya’s Birthday
3) Holy Hollywood – walk “the red carpet” with award winning actor and comedian Shelley Berman
4) Gift of Life – Bone Marrow Registry Drive
5) Last Chance for NY Trip
6) Weekly Learning opportunities – updated
7) Winter Break Ski Retreat
8) Thought for the Week



1) Challahs of Love – tonight
You get just one chance each month for this amazing opportunity. Bake 2 challahs. One for your own Shabbat enjoyment, and the other to be given to a local struggling family.
No prior baking experience necessary!
Learn Runya’s world-famous recipes and methods – not to be missed.

TONIGHT - Thursday, October 19. 7:30 – 9:00 pm at the Chabad House.
Next chance: Nov. 16

Part of our Helping Hands social action series.


2) Turn Friday Night into Shabbat – Runya’s Birthday
Holidays are over. However, our tradition does teach that Shabbat Bereishis (this Shabbat, when we start the reading of the Torah anew) is in many ways the key to the entire year that follows. Find out why, while enjoying the inimitable Chabad @ USC Shabbat experience. Fresh Challah, multi-course home-cooked banquet, amazing energy, and so much more.

In addition, this Shabbat we’re celebrating Runya’s birthday. This is your opportunity to show her your appreciation for all that she does for the USC Jewish community. Please don’t bring gifts on Shabbat, in accordance with the laws of Shabbat observance. But your presence means so much more than your presents.

Friday, Oct. 20
Candle Lighting: 5:56 pm
Services: 6:00 pm
Dinner: 7:00 pm
Cake Cutting: 10:15 pm
Remember, we have a strict “come when you can, leave when you want to” policy!

Saturday, Oct. 21
Discussion on Genesis and the story of Creation: 9:15 am
Morning Services: 10:15 am
Lunch: 12:45 pm
Shabbat ends and Havdalah: 6:50 pm


3) Holy Hollywood – walk “the red carpet” with award winning actor and comedian Shelley Berman
Don’t miss part 2 of our exciting lecture series: Jewish LAS. A Food for Thought event.

Is Hollywood really about Jewish values? What’s it like being Jewish in “the industry”? Does it help, hurt, or neither?
Hear over 50 years worth of Hollywood memories from a true industry legend –award winning actor and comedian Shelley Berman. Whether it’s through his Grammy-award winning comedy recordings, his big-screen appearances in such movies as “Meet the Fockers” and “The Aristocrats”, his roles in such TV hits as Friends, King of Queens, or most recently Curb Your Enthusiasm, or his teaching of humor writing in the MPW program right here at USC, Shelley Berman has done it all. And throughout everything, he has maintained a very clear awareness and connection with his Jewish identity.

Walk down the red carpet, munch away on popcorn, movie treats, and a full salad bar, and enjoy Shelley’s anecdotes, reminisces, and insights.

Due to technical difficulties, we have had to drop Mel Gibson from our list of speakers for the evening….

Tuesday, Oct. 24th. 6:30 pm at the Chabad House. RSVP at www.chabadusc.com or at the Facebook event “Holy Hollywood”.


4) Gift of Life – Bone Marrow Registry Drive
Another Helping Hands social action opportunity.
Do you want to save a life? Maybe it’s a child with leukemia? Or an adult with lymphoma?
You’ll never know if you could have done something, if you’re not in the national bone marrow registry.

Statistics show that it’s most likely for matches to be found for marrow transplants from people with similar ethnic backgrounds. So the more Ashkenazi and Sephardic Jews in the registry, the more likely it is that a match can be found when someone from that background is in need. That’s what Gift of Life was founded for. And that’s why we’re doing a drive for Gift of Life this coming Wednesday.

What: Bone marrow registry
Where: In front of the JEP house, at Trousdale and 34th (right near the Finger Fountain).
When: Wednesday, October 25. 11:30 am – 2:30 pm

A cooperative effort between Gift of Life, Chabad @ USC, and AEPi.


5) Last Chance for NY Trip
The trip is awesome. The memories will last a life time. And all it’ll cost you is $200-
Dozens of campuses. Hundreds of students. One amazing weekend!
Thursday, Nov. 2 – Sunday, Nov. 5
www.chabad.edu/shabbaton or contact Chava at frankiel@usc.edu for details


6) Weekly Learning Opportunities – updated
No previous learning experience needed. Join Rabbi Dov for one of these exciting weekly learning opportunities to discuss virtually any topic relating to Judaism.

Monday
Dental School Lunch & Learn: 12:00 pm
Contact uscjewishclub@yahoo.com

Discussion over Dinner in Parkside Restaraunt: 6:00 pm
You bring the topic. Any topic.
Contact Chava at frankiel@usc.edu for details.

Genesis – ongoing text study and discussion @ Tuscany 426: 9:00 pm
Rad, think, talk, and debate about the Biblical story of Creation
Contact Omer at osinger@usc.edu for details.

Tuesday
Law School Lunch & Learn – twice a month
Contact Brian at brianlundin@yahoo.com for details

Kabbalah and Kabob: 6:30 pm once a month
Enjoy BBQ and discussions about the spiritual reality of our world.
Contact runya@usc.edu for details.

Talmud and Tanya: 7:30 – 9:00 pm
Taste the intellectual delight of a page of Talmud, followed by a short reading from the mystical teachings of the Tanya
Contact Rabbi Dov at chabad@usc.edu for details

Wednesday
Medical School Lunch & Learn – twice a month
(Starting Wednesday, November 1)
Contact Rabbi Dov at chabad@usc.edu for details

Thursday
Pizza & Parsha: 12:15 – 1:45 pm
Currently in its 7th year. On Trousdale.

Friday
Making Shabbat: All day
Learn how to cook the delicious components of a traditional Shabbat dinner and help out with the preparations
Contact Runya at runya@usc.edu for details


7) Winter Break Ski Retreat
An opportunity not to be missed. Dec. 24-31. Ski retreat in a beautiful lodge in Running Springs, CA. Women only. Just $50- (plus ski package).
www.winterbreak.info


8) Thought for the Week
This week, we begin reading the Torah anew. The first portion is of course Bereishit -- "in the beginning" -- which relates the story of Creation.

Jack was about to travel for business. A week before he left, he stopped by Yankel the tailor's shop. "I need a pair of pants," said Jack, "but it's got to be ready within a week."
"No problem," promised Yankel. He measured and cut and marked and pinched, and Jack went on his way.
When he came back a week later, he was extremely upset to find that the pants were not yet ready. Having no choice, he traveled off without them. When he returned a month later, he stopped by Yankel's shop again.
"Jack," cried Yankel, "I'm so happy to see you. I just finished your pants yesterday!"
"I don't understand," Jack complained. "G-d created the entire world in just seven days, and it takes you five weeks to make a pair of pants?"
"Aha!" was Yankel's response. "Look at the mess G-d made of the world, and look at these beautiful pants!"

Any talk of creation is often greeted with some comment of this sort. "If there really is a G-d, why is there so much pain and suffering?" "How could G-d exist if there's so much darkness and confusion?" "Where was G-d in the Holocaust, or by 9/11?"
Yet, if you read the story of creation, you will notice an interesting thing. When "G-d saw that the light was good" He did not abolish darkness; He merely "separated between the darkness and the light." Darkness is G-d's creation as well, and it serves a necessary purpose in our world. In order to be fully effective, light must be contrasted with darkness, enlightenment with uncertainty, clarity with mystery, objectivity with subjectivity, rationality with irrationality.
Furthermore, G-d had no intention of giving us a complete and perfect world. Where He to do so, there could be no purpose served by the creation of this world in the first place. Rather, as the verse in this week's portion says, He created a world where man would have a purpose; He created a world which would be in man's hands "to cultivate it and guard it." When there is no choice, actions are meaningless. If I buy flowers for my wife because she has somehow programmed me to do so, she will derive no joy from it. Only if it were my choice, my decision, rendered in a situation where either of the two choices were indeed viable possibilities, does it attain meaning and value.
It is sometimes only the fact that the possibility for darkness exists that makes the light worthwhile and good.
However, we must also remember that our job is to indeed change this phenomenon. Darkness has to exist to give us the choice, but our job is to take that darkness and transform it to light.

The students of the Maggid of Mezeritch (leader of Chassidism about 250 years ago) were sitting around relaxing after a day of intense study. After a few minutes, the conversation turned a bit whimsical.

"If I were G-d," said one, "I would have created the world in such a way as to eliminate poverty."

"If I were G-d," said another, "I would create the world without the ability for evil."

"If I were G-d," said a third, "I would create the world without any pain and suffering."

And so it went, each student choosing a particular area of improvement he would have wrought were he to create the world.

Finally it was the turn of the youngest of the students, Rabbi Shneur Zalman of Liadi.

"If I were G-d," said Rabbi Shneur Zalman, "I would create the world exactly the way He did indeed create it."


Wishing you a week in which you do your part to improve on G-d's creation, not by wishing He had done it differently, but by fulfilling your own personal mission within the reality that does exist.


Rabbi Dov Wagner
Chabad Jewish Student Center @ USC
2713 Severance St.
Los Angeles, CA 90007
www.chabadusc.com
Chabad@usc.edu
213-748-5884
310-801-3142 – cell

“Your next act will change the world. Make it a good one!”

Thursday, October 12, 2006

Simchas Torah Bash, NY Trip, and more

Hey Everybody,

So Sukkot is already halfway done. And despite midterms and other stresses, so far the joy has been infectious. Here’s a run-down of the rest of the week. And of course I you’re your attention once again to the main event – The Simchas Torah Bash on Saturday night. PLEASE scroll down and check it out. (Of course, it’s also on facebook!)

Make sure to scroll down past the holiday stuff for info on two exciting trips for which time to sign up is quickly running out – free Birthright Israel trip for this winter, and our amazing New York Trip – International Student Shabbaton coming up on Nov. 2-5.

One last thing for the intro. We’re in the process of putting together an amazing Winter Break Ski Retreat for women. The price is too ridiculously low for me to even say here, but make sure to check out our new website (still under development) at http://www.winterbreak.info/

See you soon!

Sukkot Happenings and Simchas Torah Bash

1) Tonight – Tuesday, Oct. 10. 6:30 pm.
Kabbalah and Kabob – BBQ in the Chabad House Sukkah
Come over for some delicious BBQ in the Sukkah, relax a little bit with a Hukkah, enjoy some Sukkot celebration.

2) All Week – Shake the Lulav.
10:00 am – 5:30 pm. Right on campus, at the Sukkah in front of Taper Hall.
Or 11:00 am – 2:00 pm on the Health Sciences Campus, in the Sukkah on the quad.

3) Tomorrow – Wednesday Oct. 11 – Make and design a Havdalah candle
Part of our Jewish Art Forms series
Along with delicious kosher BBQ for sale.
12:30 – 2:30 pm at the Sukkah on Trousdale in front of Taper Hall

4) Also Tomorrow – Wednesday, Oct. 11
Grad and Alumni EventWine and Cheese and Fondue – Comedy Night
At the Kravitz Residence in the Pico-Robertson area
Contact Zalman@jewsforjudaism.org for more info and to rsvp

5) Thursday, Oct. 12 – 7th annual Pizza in the Hut
Enjoy hot, kosher pizza and some insights about Sukkot.
12:15 – 2:15 pm in the Trousdale Sukkah in front of Taper

6) Friday, Oct. 13. Torah Dancing Warm-ups
A beautiful tradition has the Jews of the Diaspora dancing Hakafot on Friday night as well, as a way of feeling a part of our brethren in Israel who are celebrating Simchas Torah that night.
Services: 6:00 pm
Kiddush and hors d’ouvres: 6:55 pm
Dancing: 7:45 pm
Shabbat and Holiday Dinner: 9:00 pm

7) Saturday, Oct. 14 – Pre-game
9:30 am. Morning Learning
10:15 am Services
12:00 pm Yizkor Memorial services
1:00 pm Lunch-Tailgate

8) Saturday Oct. 14. The Main EventS
aturday Night LIVE – Simchas Torah Bash
Horah with the Torah, L’chaims (w. id), dancing and celebrating all night long.
Come for services or come celebrate after the game – either way, this night’s for you!
7:30 pm – Services
8:00 pm – 2:00 am Dancing with the Torahs and celebration

9) Sunday, Oct. 15 – The aftermath
Morning Services: 10:30 amTorah reading, dancing, and celebration all day long

10) Last call for Birthright – Registration extended until the day after tomorrow
There are no more chances for this winter after this. 10 free days that will last a lifetime. http://www.mayanotisrael.com/ or contact Chava at frankiel@usc.edu for more info

11) NY TripNov. 2 – 5.
$200- all-expense paid (including food, lodging activities, and ticket). For USC students only.
Sightseeing. Shabbat with 500-600 Jewish students from universities throughout the country and around the world. Hasidic reggae and rap artists in live concert. And much, much, more.
Time is running out, and spaces are filling up. Contact Chava at frankiel@usc.edu for more details.

12) Thought for the Week
Love, Marriage and Hakafot

By Yanki Tauber


Men usually don't sit over coffee talking about their marriages. That's why a particular conversation between three males stuck in my mind -- we were discussing the joys of wedded life.

"I love my wife," said Berl. "That's why I do everything she asks me to do. She says, 'Berl, please take out the garbage,' and right away, I take out the garbage."

We all agreed that Berl loves his wife.

Not to be outdone, I said: "I also do everything my wife asks me to do. In fact, she doesn't even have to spell out what she wants. It's enough that she says, 'Whew! That garbage bag is sure smelling up the kitchen!' for me to understand that she wants me to take out the garbage. Which I do, of course."

We all agreed that I love my wife even more than Berl loves his.

But in the end it turned out that Shmerl's marriage was the most loving of all. Shmerl's wife doesn't have to ask her husband to do things for her. She doesn't even have to drop hints. "I wake up in the morning" Shmerl explained, "and I just know that she wants me to take out the garbage. Or buy her a diamond ring. She doesn't have to crinkle her nose or mention the ring her cousin Sarah got for her birthday. I just know what she wants me to do for her, and I do it."


It is with our observance of the Jewish traditions and customs that we express the depth of our love for G-d
The month of Tishrei is replete with mitzvot--full of opportunities for carrying out G-d's will. For more than three weeks, our days are filled with praying, repenting, fasting, feasting, dancing, building a sukkah, acquiring a set of Four Kinds or a bundle of hoshaanot, and dozens of other mitzvot, customs and observances.

The observances of Tishrei fall under three general categories. There are biblical precepts that are explicitly commanded in the Torah, such as sounding the shofar on Rosh HaShanah, fasting on Yom Kippur or eating in the sukkah on Sukkot. There are also a number of rabbinical mitzvot--observances instituted by the prophets and the sages by the authority vested in them by the Torah. For example, the five prayer services held on Yom Kippur and the taking of the Four Kinds on all but the first day of Sukkot are rabbinical institutions.

Finally, the month of Tishrei has many minhagim or customs--such as eating an apple dipped in honey on the first night of Rosh HaShanah or conducting the kaparot in the wee hours of the morning on the day before Yom Kippur. The traditions are not mandated by biblical or rabbinical law, but by force of custom: these are things that we Jews have initiated ourselves as ways to enhance our service of our Creator.

Most amazingly, the climax of the month of Tishrei--the point at which our celebration of our bond with G-d attains the very pinnacle of joy--is during the hakafot of Simchat Torah, when we take the Torah scrolls in our arms and dance with them around the reading table in the synagogue--a practice that is neither a biblical nor a rabbinical precept, but merely a custom.

For it is with our observance of the customs and traditions that we express the depth of our love for G-d. The biblical commandments might be compared to the explicitly expressed desires between two people bound in marriage. The rabbinical mitzvot, on which G-d did not directly instruct us but which nevertheless constitute expressions of the divine will, resemble the implied requests between spouses. But the traditions represent those areas in which we intuitively sense how we might cause G-d pleasure. And in these lie our greatest joy.


So join us please for the celebration on Simchas Torah, as we dance with the Torahs and express our delight in the relationship we share with G-d and with each other!

Chag Sameach,
Dov and Runya Wagner